Book 8 :What got you here won’t get you there

For me the twenty bad leadership habits is very useful to know to avoid these things from my life , many time a friend come and tell some story about his life or his work. but rapidly we start to give him many non requested solution for his problem , also most of wifes when she meet her husband she start to complaining from her work or from her friends . husbands every time start to give his wife many advice or ways to solve here problem but in the end he explore that : she need only to tell , or to explain or complaining , nothing else
1. Winning too much
2. Adding too much value
3. Passing judgment
4. Making destructive comments
5. Starting with ‘no,’ ‘but’ or ‘however
6. Telling the world how smart you are
7. Speaking when angry
8. Negativity, or ‘Let me explain why that won’t work’
9. ‘Withholding information
10. ‘Failing to give proper recognition
11. Claiming credit that
12. Making excuses
13. Clinging to the past
14. Playing favorites
15. Refusing to express regret
16. Not listening
17. Failing to express gratitude
18. Punishing the messenger
19. Passing the buck
20. An excessive need to be ‘me’’