WHAT GOT YOU HERE WONT GET YOU THERE

Human nature is very strange through its entire process of life. Nobody in the world cant find some one or a friend to be static in his character because as the time passes, due to different circumstances human nature may change in positive or negative perspective. By the way we do have also some experiences of this type. Some of us may have had a friend in the past who know have broke up their friendship because of ordinary reasons. Any of the reasons are listed in the book by the author for sure have caused any disappointment towards our emotional feelings. This list containing the following bad habits like:

1. Winning too much 2. Adding too much value 3. Passing judgment 4. Making destructive comments 5. Starting with ‘no,’ ‘but’ or ‘however 6. Telling the world how smart you are 7. Speaking when angry 8. Negativity, or ‘Let me explain why that won’t work’ 9. ‘Withholding information 10. ‘Failing to give proper recognition 11. Claiming credit that 12. Making excuses 13. Clinging to the past 14. Playing favorites 15. Refusing to express regret 16. Not listening 17. Failing to express gratitude 18. Punishing the messenger 19. Passing the buck 20. An excessive need to be ‘me’’

once are applied from a person is going to see himself inside an arrogant transformation. The bad point is that when reached at this level will be very difficult to understand yourself you are doing wrong, more over even advices for self corrections will be hard as well to accept. Indeed these ill people because their eyes are blind due to what they have achieved, can not notice how much they are disgusted from the society. In general this category of these people become aware of their action when they have been boycot and left alone by others.

ENEA MYFTARI