Even our experiences or memories can make us change our minds about something . As time goes by you change, and your opinions do but personally I think that life shouldn`t be about taking the right decision or doing the right thing. I think life should be about being happy and if you are not sure about something , I wish that you could change your mind, even at the last minute, just so that you could do right choice for you, not for the world.
11 Mart 2011 Cuma
CHANGING MINDS
Each one of us has their unique way of thinking and understanding whatever surrounds us and often we have to make choices so that we can move on to something else. We always want and need to make the right choice, the fear of doing something wrong makes us change our mind, or even something new that pops in the last minute can make us change direction.
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You are drawing attention to a very crucial point i.e. being happy that mostly makes life meaningful.Each of us make mistakes in life and those mistakes teach us more than all the educational and training courses if we can get the correct message from them.In other words, the mistakes we make give us the best and the most benefical lessons providing that we understand and evaluate them properly.When we do so, it also leads us to change, more concretely to think differently, to see & evaluate events from a wider perspective,to act in a different way and thus to have a more happy and meaningful life.
YanıtlaSilWhen you change yourself in that way, it is certain that you would be more effective and productive in the way to change others' minds and the society as well.The early you start to do so,the better for you and the others especially around you,but you are never late to start to change your mind and try to change that of others.
There are moments in life that you think it is right to do something in some ways but still you don't feel comfort in your heart. Even it is logical/right thing to do you feel it will not make you happy. I think at those moments you should listen to your heart (but not pure desires), not to say "I knew" or "I felt".
YanıtlaSilif everything were to simple...
YanıtlaSilhowever i am in the same direction of Turan. somehow the line that connect and divide the right choice with the choice make you being happy is so thin that you always will have the question after.
have i done the right choice?
I like your comment especially the way you treat the after action. People are unpredictable and the list of factors that provide reaction is so long that it does not matter mentioning them. I agree with Ibrahim people should mostly use the heart as logic is cold and does not take in consideration the human emotion.
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